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We’re Just Friends. Really? Whose idea was that?

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I was having a recent conversation with a friend who will remain (anonymous) and by the way I did get permission to blog about it. The conversation went a little like this……

ME: Are you dating him exclusively?

HER: No, we’re just friends?

ME: Whose idea was that?

HER: Both of ours.

ME: HMMM, you told me you were really liking him and dating him only.

HER: Well, actually he wasn’t ready for a relationship.

ME: So let me make sure I understand you correctly, you are cooking, cleaning, washing his clothes, having sex, and allowing him to have a key to your house, and it was HIS decision not to be exclusive?

HER: Well he told me he wasn’t ready to be tied down to one person.

ME: You agreed to continue performing not girlfriend duties, BUT wifely duties?  Does that make sense to you?

HER: Well, I’m sure we will eventually become a couple.

ME: Really? When? Because you are giving him EVERYTHING he desires now, why would he want to change anything?

HER: I’m afraid of losing him.

ME: You’ve already lost YOU!!!!!!!!!!

I can speak confidently and say that a lot of us have been guilty of giving away and compromising too early and too often.  The lesson behind this TRUE conversation is, he will NEVER make you his exclusive mate or marry you if you compromise your values, beliefs and self to appease a man.

As a Certified Relationship Coach and Professional Matchmaker, our male clients reveal over and over again how they respect a confident and secure woman who will not compromise herself.

You will have plenty of opportunities to reveal you are wife material (when it is earned).  You can certainly ration it out sparingly, but not all at once.  Give him something to look forward to later.   He will have more respect for you and you will love and respect yourself even more. Moreover, the relationship will be well balanced.

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Tana Gilmore, Certified Relationship Coach/Professional Matchmaker/Blogger

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